I am one to testify, that if you are interested or prefer dating interracially, it's very hard depending on your demographics. And even then depending on your personality it can be hard. So how do you find someone who you can date or get to know? I have no idea. lol. Seriously, I don't.If you go to a bar, what will you find? An inebriated person that might not remember your name and just might puke in your car. If you go to a club,do you really want to potentially marry someone you met at a club? I think the best options are online and at a get together. Go to cultural events, go to concerts, go to museums, many people say go to church, but I'm not one to corrupt a person or want someone to accept me for who I am and change their belief system.
See, the problem is people are sometimes afraid. The person may not be interested. They have a boyfriend. 20 Kids. Not your type and will never be, it's usually something. I live in the South, and many of the guys I am attracted to, it's funny, they're gay or want to keep it in the closet, which isn't cool. It's like being a diabetic in a candy store! I travel alot, but many people aren't interested in long distance relationships, I would actually take it anyway I could get it-my thoughts slipped through my fingertips sorry.
Usually the best options are online, because at least then you can get to know the person. I am all for online dating especially if your lifestyle leaves you with such an option or lack of options.. So, where do you find the person, what site? Any site, if you just look through the profiles I promise, there are many people that have the preferred ethnicity of their partner not specified, and if it is, it doesn't hurt to send out a flirt. Most people are afraid of rejection, but why? Hurt your ego? I think of it this way, it's not like he's going to bite me, eat me up, most people don't want to hurt your feelings, so they won't reply at all. Often if you approach the person in the right way in person or online, with a casual conversation, the possibilities are there.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
3 comments:
Hmmm, if most of the guys you seem to be attracted to are gay...might have to change a few of your criteria. Just kidding. We all have certain things we look for in a potential mate. Some criteria I believe can be flexible others not.
For me, spending all day on a computer for work usually the last thing I want to do is spend all evening on one to....So whatever works best for you just keep plugging away you will achieve success!
Thought I'd caught your bug this past weekend. But there was nothing sexy about my voice. lol I totally lost my voice. Now, I've regained it but still sound like Froggie from Little Rascals. Turns out I developed a nasty sinus infection that spread to my throat.
Take Care,
Lane
Aww, I hope not. In the county I currently live in, the kids have been out of school since Monday because so many kids/teachers have been sick. And they extended it another day, will probably be all week. I caught the bug again, but it's small thank goodness.
My gay comment was literally speaking, well kind of, lol. Froggie could be sexy if you closed your eyes and thought of a happy place, lol. I'm sure your voice was attractive to many.
okay, back to the point at hand,lol. We do have certain qualities we want or desire in a person,on the other hand,I am very flexible but not willing to compromise who I am as a person, and no one should be. Thank you Lane, and hope you are feeling better.
>We do have certain qualities we >want or desire in a person,on the >other hand,I am very flexible but >not willing to compromise who I >am as a person, and no one should >be
You expressed my thought better than my attempt at it. :-)
I never really felt sick just couldn't talk....shoot still having problems talking if I try to say to much. The doctor gave me some antibotics to get rid of the infection.
You sure you caught it again or was it just taking a siesta from the first time...either way here's praying it has a fast exit.
Take Care,
Lane
Post a Comment