It really doesn't matter, race, ethnicity, love is only where you find it or it finds you. I have not always dated the most sane guys or emotionally stable, whether black or white. But, ladies, and guys, love finds you in so many different ways, through so many different channels, people, experiences, whatever. Once you set a standard in your life and what is acceptable and not acceptable for yourself, others will adhere to those standards. Without being told. People do only what you allow them to do, treat you how you allow them to treat you. Are you or me out to change the world? Hell no..Maybe get some minds to thinking, yes...But if they don't, I am only here for the select few. A small diary, a know how, a journal, and to generate some discussion.
To say all men are dogs is quite wrong, to say black men are dogs is wrong, to say white men only want to date black women for sex or to see if it's different is just as incorrect as the first two.
Interracial dating is a choice, a conscious decision that you are aware of the possibilities, the situations, the problems, the drama, the difference, and you accept it all. I accept being different. I accept and love myself. I dislike drama. I dislike stereotypes, but in all honesty they are all across the board no matter what race, creed, background, etc. I will not dive into them. I will only dive into my experiences, where I am coming from, and what I know.
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