first time continued

I was only 16, still wasn't dating. I would have killed an elephant to see John. Too bad there were none around. I was sheltered remember, mommy and daddy wouldn't let me go anywhere,mom was worse than dad. Still don't understand that, don't think they do either. So, I snuck around, set up places to see him. To be with John. Skipped school. Yea, I guess I did kill a few elephants to be with him. And I had my elephant grounded and beat down a couple of times for doing so.

lol, my first time..

When we think about interracial dating? What's the first thought that comes to mind? White man, asian descent woman? black man and white woman? What's weird to me is that most people don't even think that a white man and an asian woman in a relationship is interracial dating. Really, I dont think many people think about it. It is.
But very seldom, does the thought come to a person's mind, " White, Latino, or Asian man and a Black or even Latino woman." I am not even going to attempt to cover race relations, I am here to cover, Interracial RELATIONSHIPS.

My first time all started at the age of 16. Being from a small town, most of the black guys were dating or sleeping with all the girls (black and white) that I knew. So, why get into the same pot, why not do my own thing right? So, I was talking to my friend at the time April-who was white, and asked her to get her friend "Spud", I think was his name to set me up with one of his friends, white friend of course.
I didn't switch to the "other side" because of some bitterness against black men, just because they were scarce. I was a pretty good girl, good student, had a wild hair I didn't know how to express yet. So, I wanted to explore something others were afraid to explore, or rather no one else or not many black chicks were doing. Even then I wasn't big on conforming to societies demands. So, here he came, John P. On the phone you could have swore he was a black guy, he had curly gorgeous hair, a nice smile, blue eyes. But dammit, he was a bad boy! But, he became my first love. Dont ask why we like bad boys, I can't explain that.

history of me part I

I do not enjoy truly speaking about myself. But to get where we need to be, and for you to maybe, possibly comprehend where I am coming from. You need to digest this!

I am 27 years old. A black woman that lives in the Southern States. My parents are still married,I have an older brother-38, a son-11, a nephew-17, my family is dysfunctional, but we're there for each other, a normal family, Im not even sure still exists in reality.
I am prior military, educated, professional, funny, witty, charming, and can get along with anyone and everybody. I know who I am, where I have been, and where I am going in life. At least my plans for my life, what I want out of life, what I deserve, I have never had it handed to me on a silver platter, by anyone. At no point at this present moment am I confused about that. I am not ghetto fabulous-but it can brought out of me with some prying. I have clear and precise speech, the southern accent does come out every now and then, so I have been told. I am not a stereotype. I am not normal, lol, which I am very proud of. I am me, I am unique, my thoughts, opionions, every breath, laugh, are all one of a kind.
Im not some big special person. What I just said about myself, everyone should think that way. You should know what makes you special, what makes you unique and different.
I was raised in a private school in a small town near the Mississippi/Tennessee state line. I never knew what the "N" word was until my first day in public school. Yes, darlings I was very shelterd.
Most of my friends are white, latino, indian, black, every creed, color, ethnicity, background, sexuality. And Im hetero-sexual! I form my own opinion, thoughts, own mind, about a situation, person, not judgemental. Think of it this way, if you were to walk into a room full of people that didn't KNOW a THING about you, would you want them to judge you without talking to you first. I believe in doing unto others as you would have them do unto you. And I believe in Karma, it's a Bitch! I am not perfect, never have been, and the mistakes I have made in my life, have made me into the person whose experiences,thoughts,and opinions you are about to learn about...This one is too long already it seems, so let's move along.

My post from Dec. 17th

Recently, I was on yahoo Answers, and came across a young lady that wanted to see more blogs about interracial dating. I am an interracial dater, I will add pictures of myself later. This is a Disclaimer Right Here Right Now: For those of you who are offended by this post, there is an X at the top of your browser that you can click and you dont have to read this, but if you chose to, there is absoultely no reason for you to get your panties in a wad and want to crucify me, frankly I dont care, but leave room for those who have something constructive to ask or say..For those of you who feel that the world should be one way and not the other, then Stay that way, I am not here to change the world or Your mind. You are entitled to the way you want to live and Im entitled to mine..as are others..There isnt enough on the internet about interracial dating. About the topic in general, and I hope over a certain number of posts to address the topic in an informing way. To do that I will have to tell you some things about myself, which I was planning on not fully doing. But to inform the masses, I will do so, so to get something sometimes you have to give something. And later tonight after I think about this and get some more things done, we will start a small educational conference. I will not answer sexual questions. But I will answer reasonable questions, Im not Dr. Ruth and dont claim to be. I will answer some myths, some facts, and the reality. So enjoy! and come back to see me now ya her'

let's start this right!

My other blog was supposed to be parking place for this topic. But I have decided that this topic deserved its own section. It's own place, url, address,whatever. I am about to cheat and copy and paste previous posts that I have made in my other blog. And I sincerely hope that you enjoy as I explain, explore, and maybe learn some things myself that I never realized. And yes, there will be a disclaimer, be right back with that..Uno Momento
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