history of me part I

I do not enjoy truly speaking about myself. But to get where we need to be, and for you to maybe, possibly comprehend where I am coming from. You need to digest this!

I am 27 years old. A black woman that lives in the Southern States. My parents are still married,I have an older brother-38, a son-11, a nephew-17, my family is dysfunctional, but we're there for each other, a normal family, Im not even sure still exists in reality.
I am prior military, educated, professional, funny, witty, charming, and can get along with anyone and everybody. I know who I am, where I have been, and where I am going in life. At least my plans for my life, what I want out of life, what I deserve, I have never had it handed to me on a silver platter, by anyone. At no point at this present moment am I confused about that. I am not ghetto fabulous-but it can brought out of me with some prying. I have clear and precise speech, the southern accent does come out every now and then, so I have been told. I am not a stereotype. I am not normal, lol, which I am very proud of. I am me, I am unique, my thoughts, opionions, every breath, laugh, are all one of a kind.
Im not some big special person. What I just said about myself, everyone should think that way. You should know what makes you special, what makes you unique and different.
I was raised in a private school in a small town near the Mississippi/Tennessee state line. I never knew what the "N" word was until my first day in public school. Yes, darlings I was very shelterd.
Most of my friends are white, latino, indian, black, every creed, color, ethnicity, background, sexuality. And Im hetero-sexual! I form my own opinion, thoughts, own mind, about a situation, person, not judgemental. Think of it this way, if you were to walk into a room full of people that didn't KNOW a THING about you, would you want them to judge you without talking to you first. I believe in doing unto others as you would have them do unto you. And I believe in Karma, it's a Bitch! I am not perfect, never have been, and the mistakes I have made in my life, have made me into the person whose experiences,thoughts,and opinions you are about to learn about...This one is too long already it seems, so let's move along.