coffee,cream,and the dating scene

tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-309529262011-11-27T17:33:39.172-06:00coffee,cream,and the dating scenedating,information,advice,online dating,interracial dating and exploring the world and life of ..AN INTERRACIAL DATER!Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.comBlogger221100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-33518921201704500302007-02-04T19:11:00.000-06:002007-02-04T20:49:35.669-06:00politically correct?

I have seriously had some blogger's block lately. If only there was cure for that a lot of writers/bloggers in the world would make alot of money I suppose or gain alot of readers. A conversation that was generated when I made a statement containing the term "ethnic", don't exactly remember what I said, but a friend asked me, "is that the new term?" Not realizing that I had or have used the term

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-37613560579452474572007-01-28T11:46:00.000-06:002007-01-28T12:11:03.488-06:00single momma's need love too

Lol...Experience numero uno- I was really great friends with a guy who was an officer in the military stationed in Alabama. He would come to visit and we would go out on dates to events, and as most single mother's would do, I did not have him around my son initially. But the one day he surprised me with a visit, my son was out of school sick. I was very interested on how the rest would play

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-57703212280707405052007-01-28T10:45:00.000-06:002007-01-28T11:05:18.481-06:00Finding that interracial relationship

I am one to testify, that if you are interested or prefer dating interracially, it's very hard depending on your demographics. And even then depending on your personality it can be hard. So how do you find someone who you can date or get to know? I have no idea. lol. Seriously, I don't.If you go to a bar, what will you find? An inebriated person that might not remember your name and just might

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-10523494706157057142007-01-28T10:21:00.000-06:002007-01-28T10:45:16.400-06:00So, why are you single?

Have you ever been talking to a friend, stranger, a potential companion and gotten the dreaded question, "So, why are you single?" I have been guilty of asking it myself,several times,well many times now that I think about it. How do you answer it? Do you blame your ex-partner? Do you blame yourself? Blame the dog? Blame her family? But the real question is why do we actually ask it? I know

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-79896702078390584442007-01-26T12:42:00.000-06:002007-01-28T11:19:20.240-06:00talking to a woman..seriously

Being an online geek, I have ran across all kinds of men, and in turn ran across all kinds of conversations. A most recent conversation that a gentleman was having with himself and I was only watching.."so you like white meat?" Um, babes, that is the wrong way to talk to someone, a woman, even a person that's eating some sort of fowl. Do Not, I repeat, DO not, start any sort of conversation in

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-84240477995011095092007-01-22T09:37:00.000-06:002007-01-23T00:26:41.971-06:00online dating interaction

Online dating sites are coming on up in the world. There is so much social interaction that you can do, I mean on hot or not you can now chat with people, that is really advanced considering before it was if you like me click yes or no. Wish dating was that easy!On many sites, you can call the person, you can instant message their cell phone, there are some great sites, with quality people on

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-75103236626507574422007-01-22T08:32:00.000-06:002007-01-22T08:45:52.027-06:00online dating headlines

There is the constant headline that I see when I am browsing through online personals, for my own benefit and for the benefit of helping writer's block. I always see the title "nice guys always finish last", while in the real world, unfortunately this is not true. Gentleman, rewrite that headline. Nothing against the nice guys, I love the nice guys, you make a brown girl blush, seriously. But

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-57372832536359263412007-01-21T14:15:00.000-06:002007-01-21T14:22:13.890-06:00a great site for dating

While I am recuperating and rolling around in my own misery..If you are single, divorced, but most of all single..or widowed..but single, no married men or seeking affair, although some women will be okay with that, check around online,Google or hoo and you will find plenty of sites available for such beneficial arrangements..There is a really great interracial dating site that is very active,

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-47910618944944163002007-01-19T22:50:00.000-06:002007-01-19T22:53:27.900-06:00I apologize

I am sick with the flu and a virus at the same effing time, which is just plain WRONG! I will be back up and running hopefully by Sunday if not by Tuesday. All of my blogs are on hold because I can barely sit up. Thank you for visiting. Please don't be afraid to leave comments, suggestions, things you would like to know about, ask, etc.Till another postSatori

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-48795649257455557992007-01-17T22:07:00.000-06:002007-01-17T22:24:04.326-06:00interracially speaking

Interracial dating, is sincerely not something that you decide that you are going to do. Dating someone of the opposite race or ethnicity, meaning a black woman dating a white man, asian man, latino man; black man dating a white woman, asian woman, latino woman; or any of the vice versas is not at all something that you consciously make a decision about. It is something that really just happens.

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-30187531990122640892007-01-16T18:43:00.000-06:002007-01-18T14:10:44.085-06:00to jump into the jungle

You can't just wake up and decide that you want to jump on the jungle fever wagon and see what the hype is all about. Well you can, but I wouldn't suggest it. Because you need to be aware of everything behind it. Who you are, what you are, and why you are doing it.If you wake up and decide you want to purchase a ticket on the interracial train,perhaps because you want to be treated right or like

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-75998654195661280252007-01-16T16:21:00.000-06:002007-01-28T11:26:26.121-06:00curiousity will kill the cat

This post is not going to go over well. I already know, but it needs to be addressed.There is a notion, and I have asked many of my friends in the past 24-48 hours about this. What is it that makes a man who has never dated an ethnic or black woman want to do so or rather make really rude comments? What is it? Unfortunately, I had a guy I have been friends with for quite some time, casual

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-91911218349648703142007-01-15T17:28:00.000-06:002007-01-17T21:18:24.408-06:00Martin Luther King Day

Today is Martin Luther King Day and its only proper that I dive into this topic, remember his speech, "I have a Dream", would you like for me to refresh your memory. My mother always said that I "can baffle 'em with brilliance and fool 'em with bs." Well,this will be the raw, uncut version of that topic some people don't like to talk about, some do not like to discuss, and many are ashamed of

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-72187409553450297082007-01-10T19:27:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:09:17.339-06:00love is where you find it.

It really doesn't matter, race, ethnicity, love is only where you find it or it finds you. I have not always dated the most sane guys or emotionally stable, whether black or white. But, ladies, and guys, love finds you in so many different ways, through so many different channels, people, experiences, whatever. Once you set a standard in your life and what is acceptable and not acceptable for

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-55156737745118449802007-01-09T04:01:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:08:51.192-06:00The Loving's

The bottom is a case that I recall studying in a sociology class I had. In June of 1958, Richard Loving and Mildred Jeter were married in Washington, D.C. Six months after having been married, the couple was arrested, convicted of a felony, and sentenced to a year in jail. Their crime? Richard was white. Mildred was black.The trial judge suspended the sentence for a period of 25 years on the

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-31622905249260415932007-01-04T18:52:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:08:18.495-06:00really not all that complicated

Interracial dating is really not all that complicated. White, black, latino, asian, doesn't really matter. We are all different people whether in the same ethnicity or race or different. Different backgrounds, experiences, lack of experience. To make the choice to or rather to meet someone outside of your race that you have feelings for and decide to date, is only as complicated as you make it.

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-20138518942052206692007-01-01T20:07:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:07:59.794-06:00to speed this up

I have dated interracially for almost 12 years. At first it was for the sole purpose of the scarce creation of guys who were untarnished by my peers and friends. And now, it is an attraction. What attraction you may ask? I can't explain that. I truly can't. You may like your steak rare, and I may prefer mine well done. I am who I am. I have dated 3 black men in the past 12 years. None of them

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-62391916089122292112006-12-24T18:10:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:06:57.394-06:00first time continued

I was only 16, still wasn't dating. I would have killed an elephant to see John. Too bad there were none around. I was sheltered remember, mommy and daddy wouldn't let me go anywhere,mom was worse than dad. Still don't understand that, don't think they do either. So, I snuck around, set up places to see him. To be with John. Skipped school. Yea, I guess I did kill a few elephants to be with him.

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-8417843484720084932006-12-24T17:56:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:06:27.906-06:00lol, my first time..

When we think about interracial dating? What's the first thought that comes to mind? White man, asian descent woman? black man and white woman? What's weird to me is that most people don't even think that a white man and an asian woman in a relationship is interracial dating. Really, I dont think many people think about it. It is.But very seldom, does the thought come to a person's mind, " White,

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-47334002356023672132006-12-21T17:38:00.000-06:002007-01-15T20:05:56.003-06:00history of me part I

I do not enjoy truly speaking about myself. But to get where we need to be, and for you to maybe, possibly comprehend where I am coming from. You need to digest this!I am 27 years old. A black woman that lives in the Southern States. My parents are still married,I have an older brother-38, a son-11, a nephew-17, my family is dysfunctional, but we're there for each other, a normal family, Im not

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-31668259409049206512006-12-20T06:09:00.000-06:002007-01-17T21:13:33.990-06:00My post from Dec. 17th

Recently, I was on yahoo Answers, and came across a young lady that wanted to see more blogs about interracial dating. I am an interracial dater, I will add pictures of myself later. This is a Disclaimer Right Here Right Now: For those of you who are offended by this post, there is an X at the top of your browser that you can click and you dont have to read this, but if you chose to, there is

Satorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05327933334663414112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30952926.post-1152598764008854592006-12-19T00:17:00.000-06:002007-01-17T21:12:42.017-06:00let's start this right!

My other blog was supposed to be parking place for this topic. But I have decided that this topic deserved its own section. It's own place, url, address,whatever. I am about to cheat and copy and paste previous posts that I have made in my other blog. And I sincerely hope that you enjoy as I explain, explore, and maybe learn some things myself that I never realized. And yes, there will be a

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